the most common case ever.

i've been getting late night calls, sms, emails, direct messages, etc from people who are going through hard times in their love life. and some of them have the most extreme cases ever! 

that's what we all do right? break up, swear we'd never love again. endless nights of chocolates, ice creams, girl talks, getting wasted. then a zillion month later, find someone new, try not to get in too deep, but then, we're trapped, we let our guards down, then it won't be long till we fall straight back to hell again. 

but that's just how it goes

the minute you let your guards down and give your all to a person

you are giving them power to break your heart, yet trusting them not to

very risky, very dangerous, and that's why we're all drawn to it. 

we like the thrill of risking everything we have for something we're not sure of. 

we like to take chances,right? 

of course, we're young.

but some people, like me 2 years ago, choose to numb their hearts

they'd go on dates, do what lovers do and and all that,

without actually being in love

when they laugh at your jokes, or say 'i had a great time with you today'

they never really mean it

they'll keep you guessing, keep you hanging.

it's fun. it's much safer. 

but somewhere in their hearts, they know they're missing something, still. 

the point is, just embrace everything that's been happening in your love life, peeps.

it's all natural. the good and the bad. 

don't give up, unless you're planning on being gay.

wait, even gay couples have problems. they cheat and all that too :P

 

oh well. 

ps: group hug to my friends in Boston and Singapore. you guys can make it. cheer up :) don't get too mellow